Thursday, October 17, 2013

Tips To Stay With In Laws

Amaran: Title je english tapi entry malay hahaha.

Ramai tanya.

‘Apa tips stay dengan in laws?’


Selama ni malas nak jawab.


Tapi bila classmate, Sal yang tanya, ada rasa nak jawab sebab aku nak dia yang bakal ditinggalkan husband yang kerja kat France berbulan-bulan dan kena stay dengan in laws, tahu apa nasihat aku. Terpulang pada dia nak follow atau tidak.


Ni yang aku share dengan dia.


First: Jangan buat assumptions. 
Aku tak suka orang assume aku sedang beremosi apa. Sebab aku pun tak suka nak assume orang sedang berperasaan apa. Fikir positive, yang baik-baik saja. Jangan sebok nak fikir orang ni suka kita atau tak, orang tu ikhlas dengan kita atau tak, diorang benci kita ke marah kita ke apa ke. Jangan buang masa fikir bukan-bukan. Buat tak faham. Buat bodoh. Atau buat pandai. Suka hati. As long as untuk ketenangan diri sendiri. 
Tenang fikiran kita, tenang hati kita.

Second:Jaga hubungan dengan suami. 
Suami kita, kesayangan mereka. Baik kita jaga hati dan keperluan suami kita, inshaAllah baik juga mereka layan kita (tak termasuk scene drama samarinda yang mak mertua ipar duai semua jahat belaka maka kesian sungguh lah menantu itew). 

Third:Buat apa yang patut, hanya yang patut. 
Aku jarang masak. Tapi aku tak mensepahkan dapur. Aku jarang nak spend time huha huha dengan diorang. Apatah lagi nak share dengan diorang segala cerita luar dalam (of course aku bukan menantu/ipar favourite but I don’t care). At least aku bukan jenis yang suka propa atau mengadu domba. And believe me one day they will appreciate you for that.

Itu saja. Senang tak? Only three tips.
Three years three months and counting, I still survive. Alhamdulillah. 


Tapi ultimate tips ialah, berdoa banyak-banyak pada Allah supaya hubungan kita dengan orang sekeliling baik-baik saja disamping usaha untuk tidak menyakitkan hati orang lain.

In before, MIL saya sangat baik. I love her so much no matter what! Syukurrr..


Tuesday, October 08, 2013

Snorkeling in Sabah


When I first visited Kota Kinabalu about 6 years ago with two dear friends of mine, 
I was immediately fell in love with all the things Sabah could offer. 
I am so in love with Tg Aru, Poring, Ranau, Kundasang, Karambunai, Sandakan, and many more great great places we managed to visit seems so hard to forget.
We really had so much fun. The proof : we captured about 4000 pictures for our 4 days stay hahahahha. 1000 pictures a day!

From the food, the nature, the mount, the beach and of course the most memorable was the island! My first experience snorkeling and island hoping in Sapi, Manukan and Mamutik really really made me feel touched and overwhelmed. I even cried in the water watching the fishes and cute marine life. The underwater, soooo beautiful.
Is that really a clown fish? The nemo we saw in movie? Seriously? Nemo was playing hide and seek with us! we were so excited and cried. Sebab terharu.
And then we saw a big stingray and even a turtle. We cried more. Ahahahah. 
A big group of colorful fishes were following us everywhere we went, because we are holding some food in a bottle. we feel like dreaming. 

I couldn't stop when talking about my snorkeling experience in KK.
We were so lucky because our tour guide pull us to the places which full with beautiful corals and loads of cute fishes. It was quit far from the shore as many people without tour guide would never reach the point due to safety factor.

Alhamdulillah we were so lucky.
Our first snorkeling experience went well. Very very well.

Because I was so in love with the island, I came again alone in 2009. 
Yes alone. and did the same activities. 

Then when my fiance (now is my husband of course hehe) asked the place I wish to go for our honeymoon, I couldn't think other than KK. The intention was I want to share my experience and I want him to see what I saw. The beautiful Sabah.

And now...I want more.


The place that always crossed to my mind.


To swim with the colorful fishes.


See the beautiful corals.


Crystal clear blue green water.


Mabul, see you in April 2014!!!!
Hope to snorkel at Kapalai as well.

And I CANT WAIT.

Thanks AA for the cheap flight ticket! hehe.

Ya Allah, panjangkan umurku, izinkan ku untuk melihat indah dunia ciptaan Mu disana. Amin.

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

Blood Type and Personality Traits


Tadi terbaca pasal ketaksuban orang Jepun terhadap blood type kat blogserius.
Interesting fact, serious tak pernah tahu hahah.
Rupanya orang Jepun ni kalau boleh segala benda nak ikut blood type.
Sampaikan ada percubaan nak breed better soldiers based on blood type.
Pastu kat sana ada jual soft drinks yang ikut blood type contohnya AB sesuai minum banana flavoured soda dan ianya sangat mendapat sambutan! haha.

Pastu gatal la nak google kan. Nak tau jugak apa research diorang pasal blood type and its personality characteristics. Selama ni pernah baca Dato Fadzilah Kamsah yang ikut bulan lahir tu je.


Personality Characteristics
Type A
 Presence of mind, serious, patient, calm & cool;
 
Coherent character, can be relied on & trusted, but stuborn;
 Plan everything out beforehand, and carry out tasks with seriousness and consistency; 
• Try to be fair and find the ideal outcome to any situation;
• Tend to keep themselves separate from others, especially those who don't share their opinions;
• Tend to try and keep their emotions and thoughts hidden from others, and share them only when comfortable.

'TYPE A'
Type As most often described themselves in ways related to the following characteristics: sensitive to the needs of others, good listeners, detail oriented, analytical, creative and inventive. Type As may seem calm on the outside, but inside, you’re filled with anxiety and worry. You’re perfectionists and often shy and sensitive. Usually introverted, you’re stable and thoughtful. You make good listeners and are sensitive to color and your surroundings. You like to be fashionable and are up on the latest trends, but never flashy or gaudy. You like romantic settings and often shun reality for fantasy worlds. A is most compatible with A and AB in the love department. Common career choices: accountant, librarian, economist, writer, computer programmer, and gossip columnist.
Blood Type A - Tend to be cooperative, sensitive, clever, passionate and smart. Often bottling up anxiety in order to get along with others, they may hold in their emotions until they explode. Many are tense, impatient and unable to sleep well. While they are capable of leadership positions, they may not take them because the stress is not good for their tightly wired systems.
 

Type B
• Tend to be exceedingly curious about everything;
• Are easily vexed and grow exasperated if things don't go the way they want them to go;
• Usually have a strong drive to be the best at whatever they set their mind to doing; however, they also tend to neglect other tasks for the sake of whatever they are focusing on;
• Have a hard time multi-tasking;
• Tend to be loners, and keep themselves isolated from others;

'TYPE B'
Blood Type B's often described themselves in ways related to the following characteristics: subjective, easygoing, creative, original and flexible. In another study, Type B's scored significantly higher on "intuiting," indicating a preference or sixth sense information; and they scored high on the "intuiting/feeling" combination, indicating that they tend to be insightful, mystical, idealistic, creative, globally-oriented, people-oriented and good at imagining. They also reported that they learned best through listening, then reflecting on and interpreting what they had observed. Perhaps the nomadic life of the steppes contributed to long hours given over to talk as well as ample time for meditation and reflection. Type B's can be very goal-oriented and often complete the ambitious tasks set before them. Outgoing and very charming, you’re good at reading people and providing support. Though critical of appearance (but not your own), you aren’t picky and are unlikely to dwell over the little things. 
Type Bs are impulsive individualists who often create their own path in life. You are very strong and optimistic. B is most compatible with B and AB lovers. Common career choices: cook, hairdresser, military leader, talk show host, and journalist. Blood type B individuals tend to be balanced: thoughtful like A's and yet ambitious like O's. They are empathetic, easily understanding others' points of view, yet often hesitating to challenge or confront. Chameleon-like and flexible, they make good friends. 
 

Type AB
• Usually gentle and emotionally sensative;
• Are very empathetic and careful when dealing with other people, taking care to consider the other point of view;
• Easily become lost in thought;
• Are sometimes looked at as having 2 personalities, because they tend to keep their true selves hidden from strangers;
• They have many friends, but also require time alone.

'TYPE AB'
Type AB often receives mixed messages about emotional health. While you tend to be drawn to other people and are friendly and trusting, there is a side of you that feels alienated from the larger community. At your best, you are intuitive and spiritual, with an ability to look beyond the rigid confines of society. You are passionate in your beliefs, but you also want to be liked by others and this can create conflicts. In an independent study, Type ABs described themselves as emotional, passionate, friendly, trusting and empathetic. Type ABs are considered some of the most interesting of the blood types, both John F. Kennedy and Marilyn Monroe were Type ABs and although both are long gone, they hold a place in our national psyche to this day. Not surprisingly, ABs can be quite dualistic, possessing both A and B traits. You may be shy and outgoing, and hesitant and confident. You often stand out from others, don’t like labels, and are nice and easy going. You are logical and determined to do things correctly. Usually trustworthy, you like to help others. You often speak in a serious manner. Your patience, concentration, and intelligence are admirable. AB can find a soul mate with any other blood type. Common career choices: bartender, lawyer, teacher, sales representative, and social worker. 
Blood Type AB - Tend to be very charming and popular. They don't sweat the small stuff and can be seen as spiritual and even at times a bit "flaky". Only about 2 - 5% of the population are blood type AB. There is never a dull moment in a AB's life, so if you find one for a friend, consider yourself lucky! Youll enjoy some exciting times together! Sometimes it is difficult to be an AB. AB's don't like to fit in anyone else's "boxes". If they feel too confined, they'll break out of that box and do things their own way.

Type O

• Are usually the "cheerleader" of the group;
•Tend to be more followers than leaders, accepting whatever the plan is and going alone with it without protest;
• Very generous and kindhearted;
• Generally well-liked by most people;
• Very flexible, and adapt easily to change;
• They are easily influenced by others, as well as perceived authorities, such as television personalities;
•Generally trustworthy, but can sometimes make mistakes due to lapses of focus.

 'TYPE O'
Type O’s most often described themselves in ways related to the following characteristics; responsible, decisive, organized, objective, rule-conscious, and practical. Both male and female Type O’s reported a higher percentage of the mesomorphic body type when compared to controls. Interestingly, Type O’s also scored significantly higher than the rest in “sensing” – using the 5 senses to gather information, and in the sensing-thinking combination, indicating that they are more detail and fact oriented, logical, precise and orderly. 
Type O's are the social butterflies. Often popular and self-confident, you are very creative and always seem to be the center of attention. You make a good impression on people and you’re often quite attractive. Organized and determined, your stubbornness will help you reach your goals. You make good leaders. Lovewise, O is most compatible with O and AB. Common career choices: banker, politician, gambler, minister, investment broker, and pro athlete. Blood Type O - Tend to be loners or leaders and are intuitive, focused, self-reliant and daring. They handle stress better than other blood types and have strong immune systems, a well developed physique and a physically active nature.
 

Welcome to Our Lovely Family Ms Yasmin Part 2


Haaa ada Part 2 ni cik jahhh!
Just sharing my experience in family planning yea.

Ceritanya gini.
I ols sepatutnya prd 18 Sep bulan ni. Tapi sampai 22 Sep, takde pape lagi.
I ols pelik hokeh. I ols kan ada kawan baru bernama Yasmin. Takkan terlekat jugak kot.
Adakah Yasmin itew tak boleh 100% dipercayai? I ols nervous!

Bagitau husband, lantas husband membelikan dip n tell.
Legaaa sangat single line je hewhew. Siap tunggu 5 jam tengok betul ke single line takut dari single bertukar double cam kes Aisy dulu hahaha.
Tapi memang betul single line. Phew! Kalau tak, babai la UKM.

Pastu, i ols demam dari isnin aritu. Mula la ramai speculate yang i ols ni pregnant khen.
Mula-mula buat tak tau je, tapi bila dah 7 8 orang berkata 'ko pregnant niii..ala pregnancy test tu bukannya betul sgt pun. baik ko check ngan doctor..'
I ols nervous balik. Hadoii..

Husband pun insist nak terus bawak pergi clinic sebab demam dan sekali tanya doctor pasal tak prd tu. Sebab all this while prd memang normal and regular.
Tak buat appointment ngan Dr Hisham, tapi nasib baik Dr Hisham memang on duty.

'Ok demam bla bla bla nak tanya apa lagi?'

'Saya nak tanya kenapa saya tak prd lagi suppose to be on 18th..'

'Oooo..ni mesti lupa nii..ke hari tu tak dengar sangat? suami pun lupa eh..
takpe kita buat revision ye..kita ulangkaji hehe..'

amboi perli ye.

'Ok pil ni kena makan selama 21 hari. lepas 21 hari akan ada discharge macam prd tu tapi kita tak panggil prd la kita panggil dia withdrawal (yeke perkataan ni ahahah aku lupa lagi)
hari ke 21 hingga ke 28 tu tak payah makan pil. either got any discharge or not, day 29 kena ulang makan pil 21 biji tu. sekarang dah x amik kira menstrual cycle. sekarang pill consumption cycle pulak..kira pape mesti ikut 1st day start makan pil tu hingga ke hari 21. pastu stop dari hari 22 ke 28, then start balik hari ke 29 sebagai hari pertama semula..'

'oooooooooooooooo....patut la saya tak prd lagiiiii..ikut cycle amik pill tu rupanyaaaa..
maknanya pas habis makan pil 21 biji yakni 2 Oct onwards tu baru la saya prd ye? 
walaupun sepatutnya bulan ni 18 Sep?' 

'Iyeee betul..'

kbai.
senyum.

Friday, September 13, 2013

Welcome to Our Lovely Family Ms Yasmin


Assalammualaikum Mommies!
I believe most of this blog reader are mommies who accidentally  view it. haha.

Ok hari ni nak share pasal kita pergi consult doctor hari tu.
At first nak amik presription untuk Aisy je.
Then Dr Hisham (doctor favourite kitorang) tanya ada pape lagi nak tanya?

'Hm..nak tanya pasal family planning boleh?' (tetibe tertanya).
'Boleh. Nak tau yang mana? Macam-macam ada..'
'Kalau injection every 3 month tu?'
'You better not. Naik badan nanti. Dah ramai amik yang tu pastu menyesal hehe..'
'Ok cross!cross from the list! Please Dr. Saya dah cukup gems. Tak nak aa bertambah gems lagi! ' (Both doctor and husband laughed at me. cis! maaannnn!)

Then Dr Hisham explain satu2. Sfter that he suggested to take the YASMIN pills.

Ohh..Yasmin yang sangat fofuler itew!
Ni makcik tau niii..Ni kawan2 makcik ramai prefer yang ini..

Apa effect dia Dr.? Mesti ada side effect kan?
Actually saya tak berani la nak makan pill ni.
Sebab tu anak no 2 dah masuk setahun baru nak start kekdah lain (setelah saya tak begitu yakin untuk planning sendiri hahah)

Oh. positive side effect. Side effect that you will love.

Apa?

Tak menggemukkan, melancarkan period, kulit jadi halus cantik dan gebu, 
bla bla blaa... 
(pastu aku dah tak dengar Dr Hisham cakap apa sebab bersinar mata dngar dia kata kulit boleh jadi gebu..haha!)

Ok, saya nak ni Dr! Ok confirm Pa, Mommy rasa ni paling ok. We should try this..
(dasar perempuan. pantang dengar benda related dengan kecantikan dan cuba mempengaruhi husband untuk berkerjasama)

Then Dr Hisham explain cara makan, benefit, how it works etc.
Serious aku x dengar sangat sebab sebok belek kotak pill tu.

Puan Adila tak dengar ni..Its ok. Actually I need to explain to husband pun. Husband yang mempengaruhi method ni berkesan ke tak..You got what I mean? 
Sambil senyum pandang husband. Then dua2 senyum.
Aku dah lama senyum lebar.

Ms Yasmin is now part of our family kikiii..


Jangan memula je bersemangat bagi reminder ye darling.
At least for another 8 month.

Bukan menolak rezeki. Ye anak itu rezeki.
Tapi kami perlu planning. Plan tunggu Mommy habis study dulu yeeee.

Kita merancang, Allah juga merancang.
Tapi, Allah sebaik-baik perancang. Kan?